5 Ways to Respectfully Disagree Without Giving In or Giving Up

5 Ways to Respectfully Disagree Without Giving In or Giving Up

Our social harmony has been fragmented by mud-slinging and divisiveness. Clashes between the left and the right have global reverberations. Each side holds negative views about the other, leading to polarization, culminating in political “echo chambers.” I admit, I've been guilty of this myself at times. When I do engage with people on the opposite end of my political views, however, I find practical negotiation strategies lead to respectful and eye-opening debates.

In Conflicts, Shifts Happen

In Conflicts, Shifts Happen

A couple once relayed a funny story to me that confirmed the importance a simple shift in perspective can play in transforming a conflict.  After decades of marriage, something happened that shed light on an ongoing battle between them.  With a new look at the same old issues, their conflict ended.

What's Everyone Really Fighting About? 3 Powerful Lessons of a Mediator

What's Everyone Really Fighting About? 3 Powerful Lessons of a Mediator

I’ve been a dispute resolution professional for nearly 25 years and, well, business is booming this year.  Palpable tension is on the rise, within family gatherings, workplaces and communities.  People are feeling burned-out by the polarization.  Most of us are guilty of avoiding people who don't agree with us, just to minimize the stress and discomfort associated with conflict.  How can we turn this around?