When you think of reconciliation, perhaps you picture a hug between friends after an apology. Or maybe an image of a person confessing their wrongdoings to a religious leader comes to mind. Or you envision two groups making amends after years of vicious fighting. You might be even thinking of a recent personal experience of your own reconciliation in your head. The notion of reconciliation is unique for all of us and as old as the first conflict. Reconciliation is more than an event. It’s a complex process that can have lasting and positive impacts on relationships. Because of this, it's important to understand the power of reconciliation in mediation, and how it can transform conflict into sustainable harmony.
The Transformative Power of Mediation is as Mystifying as Magic
In my journey, from mediator to mediation coach, I have become fascinated by how magical mediation is in helping people collaborate to develop a mutually-satisfactory resolution to a conflict. The mediation process can inspire a person to unlock previously untapped sources of imagination, flexibility, productivity, and courage. Encouraging words, poignant questions, validation, acknowledgment of common interests, and reframing what parties say can miraculously quench and neutralize a long-lasting and heated conflict. A mediator does not have supernatural powers, but the transformative power of mediation is as mystifying as magic.